Why more and give me less willing to live in this society m1erda?

Why more and give me less willing to live in this society m1erda? 

It is no secret that they treat you depending on you look like, you look good you treat them well, they treat you badly wrong lights, Real lights and treat you with indifference. 

We live in a world where appearances are more important than the person himself, are able to judge you harshly for your appearance without even knowing your name, and as he said that's not a secret to anyone. Whether you're a rapist, murderer, swindler, pedophile, wife beater etc. if you have good looks like you will accept. 

And not only with issues of physical, also personality, if your personality does not match that of "most" you marginalize, make you aside and you finally grown up hating the world and their stupid system that develops and ensima all must accept with a smile however false, because otherwise you judge for "resentful" "frustrated," etc., 

The crowd is a m1erda, the world is a m1erda, humanity is a m1erda. 

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Alexandra replied 7 hours ago 

I think life is a game that you have to learn to play like a card game where you do not choose the cards you played but if you do choose to play, you decide what attitude to take you to the adversities that come your day by day. 

The cruel reality is that we live in a superficial society where more and more what matters is what you have and not what you are, are rules and customs which can not be ignored but not take seriously the criticism that others do. 

The people who judge a book by its cover is foolish people who can not see beyond their noses and therefore do not need to take much notice. Do not give importance to someone who does not. 

What I can say is that not all people are so real looking people who are honest with themselves. 

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Brenda responded Villagrana 8 hours ago 

Because all act like robots in this life no one is free studies that did not serve in life, and jobs that pay very little. 

There comes a momemto do you like give yourself a break and be free 

Leave forever or simply being born in another era 

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Felipe Esterlin responded 8 hours ago 

depends on how you look at things the best solution is this IGNORES PEOPLE will always be one or two missing or something you respect'll let haci a channel link helps a lot, if some people are a ****** you can not say that humanity and the entire planet is a ****** without having met all good here before you'll link https: //www.youtube.com/channel/UC-hjRfC ... 

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mokoma replied 8 hours ago 

If you're one of those people who constantly worry about what others think of you 

Stop thinking about others. While this may sound difficult, you are not the most important person in the world, at least not for everyone. Most of the time, when you think you're being judged, probably not. It's just very difficult to judge every person you meet, analyze its flaws and imperfections as if they are a qualifying examination. 

One way to test this is going a bit beyond your limits and doing something a little unusual for you, see how people react, odds are that only your "friends" will notice the change and make comments, but any unknown will not mind. 

Learn when to start thinking cacharte others. Recognize this pattern of abuse and "do something" to overcome it. For example, every time you think too much, force yourself to praise an aspect of your personality. This should help give you a better self-esteem: 

"Thinking is good. I pay attention to all the little details, I notice things that other people do not notice, but you should use this ability to be positive, not negative. "

"I care about being good at something. No one can achieve perfection, but I try to do my best, if I fail or not give it all, it's not like I had not tried. That's all I can say. "

"I care about principles. Values ​​and I try to live by them. The world does not always work out the way I want, but that does not mean I'll stop trying. I'll take it when it does not do it. "

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Put things in perspective. People obsessed with what others think tend to put the "problems" under the microscope and can not see beyond their noses, while people who do not obsess about what others think tend to see the whole picture. You only live once, will you let the thoughts of other people do it less enjoyable ?, sounds silly now, right? 

Give it some time. Besides the fact that life really is too short to worry about things how are you, the other aspect is that the feelings of the people change. For example, say a person insults you for using yellow shoes, giving you the impression that you should not use them but what happens if the opinion of this person changes and starts wearing yellow shoes? People change of thinking, so I think today may not matter in the future. 

Make a list of all the things you are grateful for. Put them in a list really helps, makes things even more tangible, more real. Once you see everything went well for you - maybe your family, your intelligence, your health - you begin to realize that life is more than "yes" you have to what "not" you. Appreciate what life gives you, no hard feelings so you do not get. 

Enjoy the little things in life. He begins to see beauty in everyday things, like a child playing with a dog; rejoice with everyday things, like a warm cup of tea; find happiness in everyday things, like a story told by overcoming difficulties your friend. 

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Trust yourself. What if we could eliminate all the times we question ourselves good ?,, you can do it. The trick, if you want to call it that, is simply more confident in the decisions and actions you choose. 

Have you ever seen someone who is looking for something out of the ordinary, but that seems normal and is not being judged ?, If you're using yellow shoes and you are clearly uncomfortable with them, people will notice: they can see your insecurities and will attack you in order to feel better about themselves.Do not judge yourself before others do in the first place, the less likely they judge you! 

Here some small, but powerful, self-esteem boosters you can try: 

He smiles. Science suggests that the act of smiling can boost your self-esteem organically. If you smile more often, send messages to other people that you are friendly and more likely that they'll smile back. Be happy and even forgive. 

Visualize success. Do not think about what happens if I fail ... ?, although this is probably spinning in your head, think better, how I will triumph? 

Part goals into small pieces. Do not predispongas failure, predisponte for success. If your goal is to be more confident around guys (or girls), the goal of small parts: eye contact, conversation, flirting, etc. Reward yourself when you finish a small part of each large goal. 

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Learn to control your emotions. When you start to take your beyond limits and you become more confident, you'll undoubtedly emotions from stress, worry and fear, to relief and happiness, it can be like a roller coaster in the mind; that's when you have to take control of your emotions. The simple practice taught by Eckhart Tolle says something like this: 

Be aware of the emotions within you - eg fear or worry. 

See it in your mind. 

Note that if you're watching, you can not be part of you. 

Go emotion away. 

As soon as you observe an emotion, you are separating you from it and thus can not continue to exist. 

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Accept yourself for who you are. Understandably, accept is not the easiest thing to do. Everyone is full of doubts, but everything is in the way they handle it. Luckily, there are things you can do that will help. 

First of all, think of all the things you do not like about yourself and write. Now, sails closer and see if there is any possibility of change. 

For example, if you are thin and do not like that, then see ways to gain weight and increase body mass. You can not put to work to change something you can "fix", then you have the right to complain about it. 

However, if you want to be taller, that's not something you can change, so you think your situation could be worse, for example if you are 5 '7 "and really do not like, think of all the people in the world measuring 5 '. might not have the desired height, but there are people who are "worse" and presumably some of them do not even care measure 5'. 

As time goes on and you realize the true importance of some of the things you care about, life becomes easier and your constant worries begin to fade as your confidence increases. 

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